care of brain-dead husband for 11 years, his wife filed for divorce four times, the courts have rejected

CCTV husband for 11 years, four times during the divorce proceedings, the court the two men were

was a car accident destroyed the home

43-year-old Wang Mei is the Baisha County, Hainan Province in 1987 and married FENG Zhiwei. FENG Zhiwei was young and handsome, and Mei Wang is a good fit, the two feelings is not bad. (Photo)

1999 Chinese New Year, with her husband two year old daughter walking in the street when a motorcycle hit out of the brain severely damaged nerve, not only lower limb paralysis, mental, there have been serious setback, FENG Zhiwei of the current intellectual level of children is only about three years old.

Wang Mei said her husband was in the hospital for three months rule does not improve, forced by economic pressure, Mei Wang and his family has had to take her husband back home.

the biggest impact on the family, above all, economic difficulties, although the court sentenced the driver compensation 20,000 yuan, but the ability to execute each other are they not only took out $ 1,000.

before the accident, FENG Zhiwei is a business casual, so there is no medical insurance, in order to see a doctor, the family owed thousands of dollars in debt, Mei Wang was working at a sugar refinery, the accident her husband had never been seen Wang Mei annual salary is only 2,000 yuan, which in 2000 dollars, to take care of her husband in bed paralyzed, but also raising two young children, but also out of money to pay off debts, this day is for a woman quite difficult.

take care of the first four years after her husband filed for divorce

Wang Mei in order to share the burden of her husband shortly after discharge, her in-laws will be paralyzed husband back home. Mei Wang a person's income on their own with a 2-year-old daughter and 7-year-old son lives.

days of bitter, can then support Wang Mei is her heart a hope that one day her husband to stand up again,polo ralph lauren femme, as before, together with her again to support the family, along with the time of passage of time, this hope has become increasingly slim.

physical disability, so her husband could not and the burden of their shared life, and intellectual degradation, and not letting her husband make their own emotional exchange, hoping that Mei Wang heart more and more remote, and Mei Wang also began to waver,ralph lauren polo, the marriage in name only there is no need to stick to it?

2003, the husband has been paralyzed in bed for four years, when Wang Mei 36 years old, she moved the idea of ​​divorce, the situation can be Mei Wang can not divorce her husband, so, Mei Wang for the first time to the court for a divorce application.

be her idea, first met her in-laws of the opposition, their concern is now FENG Zhiwei with their care, but their age is a big, old married couple when they left this world, Mei Wang and son and divorced. That son FENG Zhiwei future how to do it?

Mei Wang for her mother, said: I also want to take care of him, but take care of him, kids would not care. You take care of your child, I also have my own children to control ah.

Mei Wang and her husband married in 1987, and together they walked to the accident her husband of 12 years, during which there have been arguments, there have been complaining, or can be more considerate and loving Now her husband was paralyzed, he really can walk out it? Meditate, Mei Wang gave up the idea of ​​divorce, she withdrew the divorce.

divorce proceedings to child again

Wang Mei did not think so, because the heart of her husband's dismay, can not live after her marriage became .

divorce is withdrawn, can not avoid facing reality, Mei Wang 12-year-old daughter in a diary to write such a paragraph: I was two years old when my father had an accident, so my family financial hardship. Some people still look down on us,polo ralph lauren pas cher, I am fine, sad, and why my father is that? If there is a warm family how good! I want to return to their former home.

Mei Wang's daughter, now middle school performance has been good, Mei Wang hopes her daughter will be better life than their own. The reality allows Mei Wang was very difficult.

Mei Wang says that when the eldest son of the learning is also very good, could have been in high school to college, but because the family is so poor, and his son had to read a secondary school, the absence of what to read, this year It has been 20-something son, only four day laborers.

accident when her husband was 32 years old Mei Wang, Mei Wang has now 43 years old, Mei Wang said he does not expect anything of this life, and following the first time after she filed a divorce filed before the courts for two second divorce, the courts have been rejected.

Wang Mei their rest of my life this has happened, said she was trying to divorce,polo ralph lauren homme, life is like to find people who can help her share, the two children who are trained to amount to anything. In addition to good children, she also felt that the child will amount to anything, have the ability to care and support disabled father ah.

So, Mei Wang to the local court has twice filed for divorce, but, twice divorced, the courts have rejected on the grounds that: Wang Mei said this, she does not know how to understand, she only said, judges do not look at how the day she had it?

fourth divorce

2007, the 4th Mei Wang filed a divorce, this time, but added her mother agreed, she said: Mei Wang from two children future consideration to divorce, they do not is that the elderly do not understand. However, her mother made a condition: before the divorce Wang Mei spend 10 million dollars, arranged her husband's life.

Mei Wang silent, and 10 million of money for the annual income of only a few thousand dollars, and also in terms of the burden of a son and daughter of Wang Mei. It is an astronomical figure.

take no money, you can not divorce? Mei Wang can only hope that the court's decision -----

but the court still did not support her.

Mei Wang's lawyer, said, standing just a spectator point of view, he felt FENG Zhiwei Wang Mei's husband after an injury, did not do any of the duties and obligations of the husband. And the couple have long lived in two places, so the couple still do not exist in name only? Not sentenced to divorce, Mei Wang, is not too inhumane? This is not a moral kidnapped it?

Mei Wang appealed, and the court of second instance is still the same reasons, dismissed her appeal.

her greatest wish is to help his son find a job because of the suffering of the family, which helped the most realistic.

four divorce eventually ended in failure, to face the dual pressures of life and public opinion,polo ralph lauren, Mei Wang had once again abandoned the idea of ​​divorce, but she is very confused, are in reality and law, In addition to asking her to stick outside of marriage, there is no other way to let her go? She and her husband how to be able to get rid of this dilemma it?

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home in the main city, working in more than 100 kilometers outside of a small remote village, the couple separated for many years, enduring pain and suffering -

he Qijiang small remote village, his wife, the main city in good condition. Many have the opportunity to return to the city to work with their families, he refused.

he has emphysema, lung function is normal 18%, which could leave this world, but never had a day off, please. His wife said: Someone asked him why he remained silent.

28 years, loneliness, illness, in his words, has become a habit.

yesterday, when the first rays of morning sun through the trees the birds accompanied by crisp, projected onto Xiao Dalun bedroom windowsill, he was standing in the empty playground.

children has not come yet, he was a man on the playground, to be precise, the whole hill head on his one man - even if the children came,polo ralph lauren pas cher, not too many 17 people only.

56-year-old Xiao Dalun coughing, cough caused by violent shaking him like dozens of steps away, and some breath.

cold day - this time of year, he must wonder whether they can get through the winter. Last year, he's still normal lung function 52% this year, it suddenly dropped to 18%.

playground side of the rose and Zephyranthes, was 17 years ago led him to the village of hours children papaya species. Now, the flowers still, past glory of the school already become so depressed, the number of students from the 300 to the present 17 people, including eight people are still pre-school children. Nearly 20 former teachers early career change, or transferred to better schools - in addition to Xiao Dalun.

7 years, papaya Qijiang most remote small village, a man he used to stick

Here, there may be some children to drop out of school. Township formed in 2002 to adjust, the Board of Education intends to withdraw the small village of papaya, folks do not agree: grade and preschool. From this onwards, voluntary leaving Xiao Dalun, became the school's only teacher. Until two years ago, the Center School was invited a local woman to help him with the pre-school.

poor condition of schools, the playground had a rotten wooden boards,ralph lauren polo, top full of holes, collapsed brick half ping-pong table, classroom, bumpy ground, most of the windows have wooden flute has been moth-eaten rotten. No glass, heavy rainfall, water will be floated into the classroom. Fortunately, not many students, Xiao Dalun will be placed in the classroom focused on the middle of the desk.

this summer, the school's broken water pipes, water to a kilometer away, to go on foot to pick. Every morning, Xiao Dalun will find the playground side has two barrels of the clear spring water until the water pipes repaired. Later, he learned that this village is near the 70-year-old generation of Li and Li Ming, 58, were printed after that he was sick can not carry water, he turns to pick.

the teacher.

28-year-old Yao Yumei Xiao Dalun students was: Yao Yumei clearly remember 16 years ago, Shaw first came into the classroom when the teacher say: water, emphysema torture, want to wait until retirement

1995 June Xiao Dalun sick, but a field causes a small cold. He taught classes for graduation exams soon, and continued fever Xiao Dalun no time to heal - to a county hospital, spend at least a day.

So he dragged until the end of the examination two weeks after the children, did not expect to actually dragged into the pleural effusion, emphysema, loss of ability to work from.

few years ago, Xiao Dalun not feel serious, can last 10 years, he clearly felt that to die, let alone climbing, and even more slowly in the flat on the road a few steps away is tired out of breath. Multi-station for a class, I felt difficulty in breathing, but he refused to put a stool in the side of the podium, it can not stand, went to the window to do several deep breaths, and then stays on the podium to give the children lessons.

not a child knows the teacher is sick.

time, Xiao Dalun and stay on the podium, a child will be his bench-side to the podium, so that teachers sit down. That the children saw the tears Xiao teacher.

Xiao teachers have never had a day off so please,polo ralph lauren femme, even if the hospital makes use of the holidays. Last summer, doctors check his lung function is only 52% of normal, long ago, his condition has increased, it will feel more connected that point not on the air, the lung function has dropped to 18%.

a doctor so that he must take medicine every day, ready to oxygen, Peng Xiaoling give her husband an oxygen bag, oxygen bag can not pressurized,Ralph Lauren France, sealed ineffective, the charge can only control one day.

central leaders of the school let him rest, Xiao Dalun also feel that the medical treatment, and can return to school when he saw those kids, he could not convince myself to leave them: Xiao Peng have my mother with me, all the other children left behind, and some also the name of bare feet in winter, I go, no teacher willing to come, they go school? willing to give him free treatment, Xiao teacher happy for a while, the conditions to be on call. Xiao Dalun decide immediately died: , because the chalk dust on lung irritation, said he once cold, can cause sudden shock and death.

But she knew her husband so their lives for is not money, but a spiritual support - dedicated to the education of the students love. say to wait until retirement age of 60.

28 years, he used to loneliness, his wife also used his you have to do to meet their obligations. But since the marriage, he and his wife have been living a life separated the two, has been a full 28 years.

Xiao Dalun locals,polo ralph lauren homme, 1975 in a small village near the Pass when the teacher, the understanding of the educated youth from the city of Chongqing Peng Xiaoling. Two in love, 1981, after returning to the city of Peng Xiaoling and he formed a family.

1982 year, Peng Xiaoling to contact her husband in the main city of a good unit, but he refused: Peng Xiaoling when construction workers son with his father to learn when the construction workers, Xiao Dalun father heard the words: of an open class, the principal is satisfied with the decision to receive him. Can fill in a form that afternoon when he went behind his wife quietly slipping into the Qijiang, Peng Xiaoling furious that she nearly fainted.

have been very happy, my son is very happy.

... ...

this way, a silly Xiao Dalun give yet another opportunity to stay in Qijiang, stay in the small village of papaya.

sons elementary school, was smashed head wall, then communications developed, Peng Xiaoling finally find someone with a letter to her husband, Xiao Dalun still wait until the weekend can come home. Can be scolded every time, she also chose to understand and support her husband had used such

Papaya Village Xiaojian in the 1970s, a hill located in the head, the most recent farm, in the foot. After school, dilapidated school buildings as a dark castle, not a trace of anger.

Xiao Dalun bedroom upstairs, no street lights across the corridor, in the middle of two rows of abandoned classroom. A rice cooker, cooking, cooking is his only tool.

since 2002, living in the school teacher, left with him a. During the day, he is a teacher, after school, the school was empty, he is a lonely night watchman.

because they can not install closed-circuit, Xiao Dalun there is no TV, the whole school the only way to send voice, is an old radio, poor reception. After school, let alone Xiao Dalun radio has been open, afraid to turn off, even though the noise heard inside the host's voice still rang over.

Xiao Dalun remember, in 1992, arrived in the village papaya hours, did not the tree around the classroom, but now, lush paulownia tree outside the window than the two-story school building has been even higher. Summer, often see a snake on a tree branch hit the swing set.

most difficult night, Xiao Dalun to stay on course as far as possible to prepare the evening, looking for something to do. Really lonely, and give his wife a call, or listening to the insects out of the window is called, looking out at the woods daze.

from teaching 34 years ago, Xiao Dalun taught thousands of students, some of them to complete my college education, and some made fortunes, some have their own children, but the pain Xiao Dalun still a small village in this remote, alone adhere to.

married 28 years, ten thousand homesick day and night, Xiao Dalun not tell how he is come, he only said: , you have to do to meet their obligations.

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